Tips Just because people who are conventionally sexy don't turn you on doesn't mean you do not like that gender. Sexuality is defined by who you are sexually attracted to, not your actions. Look this up and you might find that you fit into the category '1' or the catagory '5', depending on your gender and which gender you are attracted to. Time Saturday If you have been honest to friends and family about your questioning, some of them may start to conclude that you "they must be gay" and try to help you come out of the closet. We now live in a wonderful time where gay and lesbian couples can legally marry, but we need to be aware of our history.
Remember that there's nothing that qualifies you or anything else for a particular sexual orientation other than being attracted to people of a certain gender. Full natural colors of spectrum. Can you imagine dating someone of either gender? Thanks for letting us know.
For example, noma-sexuality, which is attraction to all people but men, is under the polysexual umbrella.