Pick pizza rolls over gender roles.
Naked Trans Women
There are many amazing resources online that break down the difference between sexual orientation and gender identity. As mentioned before; always keep it respectful. If you have no intentions of anything beyond a fling—state that. Change the social climate. Trans women are women. In these cases, I've resulted to blocking them, signing off and falling into an extended spell of sexual anorexia. There are also trans women looking for a casual Casanova like yourself and they come with no strings or drama attached.